Hello everyone !
“Play heart is simple. You need to have one, that’s all”
We’re not always dealt good cards, but what we decide to do with them and how, determines who we are. A traumatic or painful past doesn’t systematically is a repeated pattern we follow.
A painful or traumatic past doesn’t justify to hurt other people… It’s not easy to face our own wounds and try to heal them, but it’s somehow needed if we don’t want to repeat the same pattern again and again.
If we don’t have enough love in one’s heart to give ourself, how can we have love to offer to others ?
I haven't always had the happiest moments in my life, but it never even occurs to me to hurt people to get rid of the pain that was done to me... I was deeply wounded by people who were supposed to raise me and love me unconditionally and who destroyed me, so I don't want other people to suffer because I know what it feels like to be hurt.
So when I say I wouldn't hurt the bullies in Vaison, I really mean it, but I also wouldn't remain silent in the face of adults who behave like the child and teenage bullies they themselves denounce...
I would always play only on the side of my heart, because of all the cards I hold, I will never run out. The way people treat us is only a reflection of who they are, and the way we react is a reflection of who we are. Just because some people find their behavior normal because it's normalized by others doesn't mean it really is. A lie doesn't become the truth just because everyone says it...
Everything is paid for on a daily basis; just look at the everyday lives of these kinds of people who want to hurt others and then don't understand why only bad things happen to them afterwards.
It's like setting up giant dominoes in a circle where you are yourself, giving the first domino the momentum and hoping that the last domino in the circle doesn't hit you... Illusory :)
But these people who harass and belittle us ultimately make us stronger by setting a bad example. ^^ They want to belittle us, but end up triggering the emotional distance they feared so much! Because losing the attention we give them makes them insignificant and invisible. From now on my harassers, you are wandering ghosts and even if you try to haunt me, you will see that it will be annoying for you because I will let you rest in peace as I have already started to do...^^ RIP the jealous, the haters, the harassers and stay connected because the new season of my life is coming just for you ;)
To the people who are being bullied, no matter your age, know that the problem does not come from you but from these people whose only solution to make others interested in them is to put you down. You have this energy, this kindness, these things that you possess or within you that they will never be able to have because they do not have the courage and the strength like you to go and get them... If they hate you, it is because you are on the right path, otherwise they would recruit you to hurt others with them to get attention and exist in their own way...
I see you, succeeding in your projects, your life, living your passions and if like me no one has it or tells you, "I am proud of you". Don't give up, once we are on the side of detachment and indifference in the face of this type of people, we continue despite the attacks to live serenely, because we are at peace with ourselves. Have a heart, play it, but not with just anyone, only with people who appreciate what you do for them and love you as you are... No negotiation of your values, people with values like you have to earn it so they don't take advantage of you... ;)
Have a good day and good game ;)
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